A calm place to find your footing
At Coaching Gems, we offer supportive, coaching conversations that help you make sense of your thoughts, experiences, and the challenges life brings.
Whether you’re navigating a major life shift such as stepping out of the property market, living with persistent pain, feeling overwhelmed, or simply seeking clarity and support, these conversations create space for reflection, grounding, and gentle forward movement.
Our approach is steady, compassionate, and shaped by a lifelong love of horses — a presence that brings calm, patience, and understanding to every session. With a background in counselling, coaching, and lived experience, Gem offers a unique blend of insight and grounded support that helps people feel safe, seen, and able to explore what’s truly going on beneath the surface.
Coaching Gems is here for anyone who wants to explore their path with more ease, confidence, and connection.
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Property Transition Coaching
Supporting landlords. Are you stepping out of the rental market?
Letting go of a property is rarely just a financial decision. For many landlords, it marks the end of a role, an identity, a source of security, or a chapter of life that once made perfect sense. When the market shifts, regulations tighten, or personal priorities change, the decision to exit can feel both necessary and unsettling.
Property Transition Coaching offers a calm, structured space to think clearly, reduce overwhelm, and move through this change with confidence and dignity.
This is not estate‑agent advice or financial planning. It is the human side of the transition: the emotions, the identity shift, the uncertainty, and the question of what comes next.
You may be navigating a sense of relief mixed with fear. You may be wondering who you are without the responsibilities you’ve carried for years. You may be unsure how to shape the next phase of your life once the sale is complete. These are normal experiences, and they deserve space, clarity, and support.
In our work together, we explore what this transition truly means for you. We look at the values behind your decision, the concerns that keep you awake at night, and the possibilities that are quietly waiting beneath the noise.
You will not be rushed.
You will not be judged.
You will be supported to think well, choose well, and step forward with a grounded sense of direction.
If you are stepping out of the rental market and into something new, you do not have to navigate the transition alone. I’m here to walk with you
Life Transition Support
Unsure of your next path in life?
Life has a way of shifting beneath our feet.
Careers change, relationships evolve, children grow up, health alters, priorities move, and sometimes we simply reach a point where the life we’ve been living no longer feels like the one we want to continue.
These transitions can be exciting, unsettling, confusing, or all three at once. Even positive change can leave you feeling unanchored or unsure of your next step.
At Coaching Gems, you have a calm, grounded space to pause and make sense of what’s happening. A place to talk openly, reflect honestly, and explore what you want your next chapter to look like.
No judgement.
No pressure.
Just steady support and genuine understanding.
Together, we look at where you are, what’s shifting, and what you hope for. We explore your strengths, your values, and the possibilities ahead.
Whether you’re navigating a career change, adjusting to a new stage of life, rethinking your direction, or simply feeling ready for something different, coaching can help you find clarity and confidence.
Our conversations are gentle but purposeful - helping you set meaningful goals, reconnect with yourself, and move towards new horizons with a sense of ease and intention.
Whatever transition you’re facing, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Coaching Gems offers a supportive space to help you step forward with clarity, courage, and a renewed sense of who you are becoming.
Persistent Pain
Do you get sharp, burning, frustrating, pain? Pain that lasts? Read on . . .
Are you like me, do you intensely dislike the term 'chronic pain'?
Chronic makes me think of something that needs oiling, well maybe my joints do, but here at Coaching Gems I prefer to use the term 'persistent pain'. It feels more honest, more human, and far less dismissive.
Pain sucks - pain is a real thing.
Pain can drag us all down.
Persistent pain is real.
It can drain your energy, your confidence, your patience, and your sense of who you are.
It can make even the simplest tasks feel heavier than they should.
And it is absolutely not all in your mind.
Here, you will be believed.
You will be listened to.
You will be understood
Living with pain can feel lonely, especially when the world expects you to carry on as if nothing is happening beneath the surface. But you don’t have to hold it all together on your own. Our coaching conversations offer a calm, steady space where you can lay things down for a moment and simply be a person - not a condition, not a problem to solve, not someone who has to be brave all the time.
This is a personal approach, shaped around your life, your pace, and your capacity. Coaching can’t take pain away, but it can help you navigate it with more resilience, more clarity, and more hope. It can help you reconnect with the parts of yourself that pain has overshadowed. It can help you find steadiness again.
If you’re living with persistent pain and want a space where you can breathe, reflect, and feel genuinely supported, you’re in the right place.
Parent-talk Support
Parenting is one of the most meaningful and demanding roles we ever take on - and in today’s world, it can feel heavier than ever. The financial pressures, the constant juggling, the expectations, the emotional load too. it’s a lot for any adult to carry.
And if you’re also living with long‑term health conditions, disabilities, or persistent pain, that weight can feel even greater. Some days it may feel as though the sky is crashing down and there’s no blue horizon in sight. Other days you might simply feel tired, stretched thin, or unsure how to keep showing up in the way you want to.
All parents struggle. All parents doubt themselves. All parents need support.
You don’t have to be living with pain to feel overwhelmed.
You don’t have to be facing a crisis to deserve a space to breathe.
At Coaching Gems, you’re welcome exactly as you are.
This is a calm, safe space to talk, to vent, to moan, to unravel, or to quietly share what’s been sitting heavy on your heart. There is no judgement here, no pressure to be perfect, no expectation to hold everything together. Just genuine care, understanding, and a steady presence beside you.
Teen Resilience Coaching*
*Parental consent required
We know that the teenage years can be very demanding for everyone - a time of identity, pressure, friendships, school expectations, and constant change. It can affect everything: confidence, mood, motivation, social life, and even how they see themselves.
As a parent, it can be incredibly hard to watch your child struggle and not always know how to help. These sessions offer a supportive space where your teenager can talk openly, learn practical tools, and build resilience in a way that feels safe and age‑appropriate.
The session may explore emotional regulation, stress management, pacing, communication skills, and gentle goal‑setting; always tailored to their personality, their energy, and their lived experiences.
The aim is to help your teen feel more capable and understood, while also giving you peace of mind that they have a calm, consistent place to learn how to navigate life.
Changing school? Facing exams?
These can bring extra stresses that a coaching conversation can help give gentle support, build resilience, and help to smooth the process for everyone.
Goal Setting and Motivation for Pain Management
Support to set realistic goals and maintain motivation on your journey to improved quality of life despite persistent pain.
Let's put you in the centre of your world again.
How? Where? When?
You decide.
We work together.
A space that honours your pace, your lived experience, and the wisdom your body carries. Together, we explore what truly matters to you — not forcing change, but nurturing it gently. Your goals become grounded, meaningful, and shaped around your values, energy, and daily realities.
We break big hopes into small, compassionate steps, celebrating progress in all its forms. Motivation becomes something sustainable rather than something you have to chase.
You lead the way;
I walk beside you, helping you stay connected to what feels possible, supportive, and aligned with your values and your life.
Is this one day? or Day One!
Stress Relief and Mindfulness Techniques
Aging gracefully?
As we move through different stages of life, our needs, priorities, and sense of self naturally shift.
Age brings wisdom, but it can also bring uncertainty, frustration, or a feeling of being out of step with the world around us.
Whether you’re in your twenties, thirties, fifties, seventies or eighties, or anywhere in between, finding your inner calmness becomes even more important. It is there - perhaps buried under today’s emotions or the weight of past experiences - but with gentle, guided conversations we can uncover it together.
Find your inner calmness.
Yes, it is there . . . perhaps deeply covered by today's emotions, but with guided conversations we can work together to move your perspective towards a more grounded approach to everyday life.
Learn practical mindfulness and stress reduction methods to improve emotional wellbeing and pain management allowing you to start to focus on where you want to go, what you want achieve.
Looking within for answers is always a good idea. But sometimes it can be challenging or something that you don't want to do alone.
Coaching Gems is here for those moments.
Whether you are choosing better life at home, or going back to work after injury or illness, our conversations offer you a calm supportive space to move forward at your own pace.
Equestrian Empowerment Coaching
Specialised coaching for horse riders to overcome mental barriers and enhance confidence and performance even with persistent pain.
We know the pain of perfection.
We know the transfer of power, the calmness and sereneness that a nudge on the shoulder by our equine friend can bring.
Coaching conversations that listen to you,
No judgment,
No agenda
Just a way to help you strive to where you want to be.
I come from a long background of horses, giving me the life experiences to uniquely understand the relationship of horse and rider. From teaching people to ride and care for horses, or teaching my own children, there is the genuine beauty of horses all around us. Within equine life there can be the deep pain of loss, grief, choices that we don't want to make but have to.
We can navigate those moments together.
Maybe you want to move on, change, do something different. We can explore those thoughts and ideals and work through feelings and emotions that may be holding you back.
Maybe you have an injury or reason for moving on and changing direction, coaching can give you the support you deserve.

What Is Coaching Gems?
Coaching Gems is a calm, grounded space for real conversations about life - the kind that help you make sense of where you are, what’s changing, and what you want next.
Life brings transitions, challenges, and moments where everything feels uncertain. Coaching Gems offers steady support through all of it.
Sessions are held on Zoom, making it easy to talk from wherever you are. You’ll find a gentle, reflective space where you can pause, breathe, and explore your thoughts without judgement or pressure.
My approach is shaped by a lifetime around horses - their steadiness, their quiet honesty, and the way they invite us to soften and meet the moment with presence. That same grounded energy guides every conversation.
I’m also a mother and a grandmother, so I understand the realities, complexities, and emotional weight of family life, parenting, teenagers, working life.
Coaching Gems supports adults navigating life transitions, persistent pain, overwhelm, or a sense of being stuck. I also work with parents who need space to think, and with teenagers who benefit from a calm, understanding voice outside the family.
For landlords stepping out of the rental market, I offer reflective support through the emotional and practical shifts of property transition.
Whether you’re seeking clarity, confidence, direction, or simply someone who listens deeply, Coaching Gems is a place to explore your next steps with compassion and purpose.
Empower your mind, conquering pain, and ride towards freedom.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Can parents benefit from mindset coaching if they have long-term pain?
Absolutely. Parents often juggle multiple responsibilities which can be challenging when managing chronic pain. Our coaching helps parents develop effective coping mechanisms, maintain a positive mindset, and improve their overall well-being to better support themselves and their families.
How many sessions will I need to see results?
The number of sessions varies based on individual needs and goals. Generally, clients begin to notice positive changes within 3 to 6 sessions. We work together to create a personalized coaching plan that suits your unique situation.
Is mindset coaching suitable for teenagers dealing with persistent pain?
Yes, mindset coaching is very effective for teenagers. It helps them understand their pain, manage emotional responses, build resilience, and develop healthy habits that support their physical and mental health during these formative years.
Is confidentiality maintained during coaching sessions?
Yes, confidentiality is a top priority at Coaching Gems. All sessions are conducted in a safe and private environment, and your personal information and coaching discussions are kept strictly confidential.
Is Coaching Gems' experience relevant to my condition?
With over 8 years of experience specializing in mindset coaching for persistent pain, we have worked with a wide range of clients including horse riders, parents, and teenagers. We tailor our approach to meet your specific needs and conditions.
How do I book a session with Coaching Gems?
You can easily book a session through our website by filling out the contact form, then we will be in contact shortly. We offer flexible scheduling to accommodate your availability.
How are the sessions carried out?
Sessions are held online through Zoom, giving you a calm and private space to talk from the comfort of your own home. You don’t need to download anything in advance — once you book, you’ll receive a link that opens the session automatically on your device. If you already use Zoom, it will open in your usual app; if not, it will open in your browser with no setup required. All you need is a quiet space, a stable internet connection, and a device with a camera and microphone. I’ll guide you through anything technical so you can simply arrive, settle, and focus on the conversation.
Can coaching replace medical treatment for chronic pain?
Coaching is a complementary approach and is not a substitute for medical treatment. We encourage clients to continue their medical care while using coaching to enhance their mental resilience and improve their overall pain management.
Do I need any special equipment or preparation before starting coaching?
No special equipment is needed. Coaching sessions can be conducted in person or online, using a phone or computer. Just come with an open mind and a willingness to engage in the process.
What are the fees for coaching sessions?
Our fees vary depending on the type and length of the session. Please visit the pricing page on our website or contact us directly for detailed information about session costs and available packages.
What is mindset coaching and how can it help with persistent long-term pain?
Mindset coaching focuses on changing your thought patterns and attitudes to improve your emotional well-being and resilience. For those with persistent long-term pain, this approach helps manage pain perception, reduce stress, and enhance coping strategies, leading to a better quality of life.
What can I expect during a coaching session?
During a session, we will explore your current mindset, pain experiences, and challenges. We use proven coaching techniques to identify limiting beliefs, set achievable goals, and develop strategies to shift your mindset towards positivity and resilience.
How does Coaching Gems specialize in working with horse riders?
At Coaching Gems, we understand the unique physical and emotional challenges horse riders face. We tailor mindset coaching techniques to support riders in overcoming pain, improving focus, and building confidence to enhance their riding experience and performance.
What is the Safeguarding and Reporting policy?
Confidentiality & Safety
All sessions are confidential. This means that what you share stays between us, whether you are an adult or a young person, and you are free to speak openly without judgement. The only time confidentiality may need to be broken is if there is a clear and immediate risk of serious harm to you or someone else, or if a safeguarding concern or serious crime is disclosed. In these situations, I have a legal and ethical duty to act to ensure safety, which may include contacting a parent or guardian (for under‑18s), emergency services, or the appropriate safeguarding team.
Everyday emotions, frustrations, personal challenges, and the normal ups and downs of life remain private. My role is to offer a calm, supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, develop practical tools, and move forward at your own pace, while following UK professional and safeguarding guidelines.